September is what my school-psychologist friend calls “the great emotional reset.” New classroom, new routines, and big fall feelings swirl like leaves in the wind. That’s why I keep a box of emotion regulation games next to the art supplies every autumn. These playful activities help kids name, tame and reframe their feelings while soaking up the season’s magic. Ready to swap tantrums for leaf laughs? Let’s play!

Why Teach Emotion Regulation in Autumn?
Seasonal transitions trigger feelings. Cooler days and shorter light can heighten anxiety or restlessness; games give kids tools to navigate change.
Outdoor learning thrives in crisp air. Mild weather means you can take regulation games outside—nature becomes a co-therapist.
Holiday hype looms. Early practice with coping skills prepares children for Halloween excitement and Thanksgiving gatherings.
Outdoor Leaf-Lovers’ Games
1. Leaf-Breath Rainbow
- Prep: Collect leaves in red, orange, yellow, green and brown.
- Play: Children inhale slowly, then blow each leaf upward, matching breath length to the leaf’s float time.
- Skill: Breath pacing; color-coded feelings (red = angry, green = calm).
2. Pumpkin Pass & Pause
- Sit in a circle and pass a mini pumpkin while music plays.
- When music stops, the holder names a feeling and one coping move (e.g., “I’m excited—three belly breaths”).
- Add challenge with a feelings dice.
3. Acorn Aim for Feelings
Draw chalk circles labeled Happy, Sad, Frustrated, Proud. Kids toss acorns; wherever one lands, the child shares a recent memory of that emotion and a strategy that helped.
4. Scarecrow Freeze & Flow
Play autumn tunes; kids dance until the music pauses. Everyone freezes like a scarecrow and names current body sensations, then shakes out the “straw” to release tension.
Indoor Cozy-Corner Games (Rainy-Day Rescue)
5. Leaf-Labyrinth Finger Trace
Cut oversized leaf shapes from thick cardboard and draw a gentle spiral or maze on each. Children place an index finger at the “stem,” inhale, then slowly trace the path to the tip while exhaling. Repeat three circuits, noticing texture and temperature as they breathe. This tactile labyrinth turns paced breathing and mindful focus into an autumn art moment—no snacks required.
6. Cinnamon-Stick Calm Builders
Children glue cinnamon sticks into a calm symbol (heart, star) while reciting a coping mantra (“Smell the cinnamon, feel the calm”). The scented craft becomes a focus tool.
7. Harvest Mood Charades
Write autumn scenarios on cards (“lost mitten,” “first snowflake,” “hayride excitement”). Kids act them silently; classmates guess the feeling and suggest a regulation technique.
8. Gratitude Leaf Garland Remix
Paper leaves + markers = hallway garland of gratitude notes. When emotions spike, invite students to “pick a leaf for inspiration.”
Partner & Small-Group Challenges
9. Weighted Blanket Obstacle Stroll
A light weighted lap blanket becomes a “calm cape.” The child wears it while navigating a mini maze of orange cones, focusing on steady breaths and slow movement.
10. Emotion-Compass Scavenger Hunt
Hide compass cards outdoors. Each point links to a feeling station—for example, North = Nervous ➜ five-count breath. Teams rotate, practicing skills at every stop.
11. Hot Cocoa Temperature Check
Pairs pretend to whisk invisible cocoa; one stirs fast while the other gauges “temperature” of feelings (1 = cold calm, 5 = boiling mad). Then switch.
12. Autumn Story-Stone Relay
Pass a pouch of stones painted with leaf, cloud, apple pie. Each runner grabs one, races back, and adds a sentence about a feeling linked to that image.
Materials & Budget Cheat-Sheet
Item | Price € | Used In |
---|---|---|
Mini pumpkins (10-pack) | 12 | Pumpkin Pass & Pause |
Dried leaves bundle | 0 (collect) | Leaf-Breath Rainbow |
Cinnamon sticks | 5 | Cinnamon-Stick Calm Builders |
Weighted lap blanket | 25 | Obstacle Stroll |
Printable game cards (PDF) | Free | All games |
Teacher & Parent Pro Tips
- Model first—kids mirror your tone and tempo.
- Use a feelings chart before and after each game.
- Integrate regulation language into academics (“Let’s leaf-breath before math!”).
- Track progress: sticker a “calm tree” every time students self-regulate without prompting.
Key Takeaways
Autumn is a sensory playground for emotion regulation games for kids. Whether students are leaf-breathing outdoors or crafting cinnamon hearts indoors, each activity layers fun over brain-savvy coping skills.
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FAQ
Which game calms kids fastest?
Leaf-Breath Rainbow—controlled exhale plus visual cue resets the nervous system quickly.
Can these games adapt for preschoolers?
Yes—shorten instructions and swap written prompts for pictures.
What if a child refuses to join?
Offer a “watch first” option; observing peers often lowers resistance.
Are weighted blankets safe?
Select one weighing no more than 10 % of body weight and use under supervision.
How often should we play?
Two short games a week reinforce skills without fatigue.

About the Author
Hi, I’m Eve, a former school counselor with a master’s degree in School Psychology and a passionate advocate for children and families navigating sensory challenges. As a mom of children with sensory sensitivities, I deeply understand the journey special-needs parents face, and I dedicate myself to researching and sharing practical solutions to help children thrive and feel comfortable in their bodies. My goal is also to empower counselors, therapists, and psychologists with creative strategies and supportive resources to enrich their everyday practice. When I’m not writing or exploring new therapeutic approaches, you’ll find me spending quality time with my family and continually seeking inspiration from everyday moments.