I still remember the day Mateo melted down in the hallway. His art project had torn, and the calm-down corner was four doors away. My pockets were empty, my heart racing. That afternoon I vowed never to get caught without a calm down kit again. Since then I’ve carried a lunch-pail-sized box stuffed with simple […]
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Every morning I slip into Mrs. Cruz’s fourth-grade classroom and watch her students “park” tiny race-car magnets on a foam-board mood lot. A shy hand pulls into Nervous; another settles in Sleepy. The whole ritual takes three minutes, yet discipline referrals from that room dropped 40 percent in one semester (building data, 2025). Daily feelings
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Last Tuesday, I watched a second-grader named Lila melt down because her pencil broke. One snap, one tear, and suddenly the room buzzed with panic. The teacher caught my eye—a silent SOS we both know too well. I knelt beside Lila, guided her through “5-4-3-2-1,” and two minutes later she was steady enough to ask
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A quick hello from the counselor’s chair 🎙️ By 9 a.m. on Day 1 I’ve already speed-walked two hallways, high-fived 30 third-graders, and taped my lanyard back together (again). The new-year buzz is electric—but so are the student nerves. Over the years I’ve learned that the fastest way to lower the collective cortisol is to
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Is it weird that my counselor toolkit contains both Kleenex for tears and sneakers for hallway sprints? Because during that whirlwind first week of school I’m ping-ponging between classrooms, greeting 400 new faces—and fielding 87 “Can I talk to you?” notes before lunch. By Day 3 even I, the resident Zen-master, crave a reset button.
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Summer is a time of vibrant energy, warmth, and abundant daylight. However, for women aged 55-65, it can bring unique challenges such as increased heat sensitivity, disrupted routines, and heightened family or social responsibilities. Prioritizing intentional self-care is essential—not only for physical health but also for emotional and mental wellness. Here’s how you can gently nurture yourself this summer, backed by science and actionable advice.
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Sometimes self-care feels like another thing on your to-do list—especially when it seems to require money, time, or energy you just don’t have.
You’re not lazy, unmotivated, or doing it wrong.
You’re human. And the good news? Real self-care doesn’t need to be expensive—or even aesthetic.
As a counselor, I want to show you how powerful and healing free self-care can be. Whether you’re burned out, anxious, or just trying to hold it all together, this guide is for you.
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Mental health is an integral component of overall well-being, particularly for upper elementary school students who are navigating both academic demands and social development. At this crucial stage, children are not only absorbing academic knowledge but also forming the foundations of their emotional and social competencies. As such, cultivating mental health awareness is essential to ensure they thrive in various aspects of life.
Research indicates that mental health significantly influences students’ academic performance. Children who struggle with mental health issues often experience difficulties in concentration, motivation, and their ability to perform academically. Conversely, students who feel mentally supported are more likely to engage in their studies, participate in class discussions, and express themselves creatively. By promoting an understanding of mental health, educators and caregivers can empower students to recognize and address their emotional challenges, ultimately leading to improved academic outcomes.
In today’s educational landscape, mental health awareness is a cornerstone of holistic child development. For young children in lower elementary school, understanding and expressing their emotions is a skill that lays the foundation for a resilient future. Integrating mental health activities into the classroom not only promotes emotional literacy but also creates a safe space where students feel supported, understood, and empowered. Teachers, counselors, and social workers play a vital role in nurturing these skills, and the following five activity ideas can help guide their efforts.
Imagine a child who recognizes when a friend is sad, offers a comforting hug, and expresses their own feelings with clarity. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is a powerful skill that helps kids navigate friendships, manage emotions, and build resilience. Unlike IQ, which focuses on cognitive ability, EQ shapes how children interact with the world and handle challenges.
But how do you know if a child has high emotional intelligence? And more importantly, how can you nurture this vital skill in kids? Let’s explore the signs of emotional intelligence in children and actionable ways to support their emotional growth.
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